For the record, this was a perfectly good question. The QAbstractItemModel::createIndex() docs do not state that it embeds a model pointer into the index it creates, nor do the QModelIndex docs mention the private constructor that makes it possible.
This makes QModelIndex::parent() look suspicious if you happen to be troubleshooting a problem. If you want to be sure your model is implemented correctly, you have to put aside the docs and dig up the inline function definitions in qabstractitemmodel.h.